So, I am not the only one, not being invited for coffee or lunch? Bit strange in the context of 'gengsi', because having lunch with a bule will give status, right?
You are talking about wealthy Indonesian people, right ? IMO The notion that inviting foreigners will elevate one's status among wealthy Indonesians is a misconception. Many of these individuals are likely to have studied abroad and have encountered foreigners throughout their lives, including in their professional settings. They might even have a few bule in their workforces in Indonesia
Instead of seeking status through social connections with foreigners, they probably prefer to focus on lobbying authorities to secure lucrative governmental projects.
A significant portion of these conglomerates generate their wealth through monopolistic practices, concessions to exploit natural resources, and the acquisition of undervalued, wasteland, lucrative governmental projects. etc.
