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    Gathering support and contacts in Jakarta

    Once again I would like to thank you all for your kindness, patience, harsh, mean, sarcastic comments. It's all with noble intentions and I greatly appreciate that. I have come from a broken home and is an idiot in handling relationships. Well, as everyone, except me, had expected, the Love...
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    Gathering support and contacts in Jakarta

    I am truly sorry if I had offended anybody. I am just trying to paint an accurate picture of what happened. At the end of the day if it turns out she is really playing with me, I have to accept what it is and move on.
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    Gathering support and contacts in Jakarta

    My son is 13, my daughter is 9.
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    Gathering support and contacts in Jakarta

    Hey, just becos the gunners suck does not give you the right to mock me.... juz kidding, I am a gunners fan too.
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    Gathering support and contacts in Jakarta

    She has a 13yo daughter from her first marriage.
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    Gathering support and contacts in Jakarta

    What I have posted here is 100% true. I am not rich. I did not touch on the subject of money because I felt that 500 sgd on average per mth is not an unreasonable amount to spend on a gf's spending money. I guess I am attracting a lot of negative reviews on this matter, simply by not giving...
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    She lied about the house in Aug 2019 which in fact she went back to get married. I understand your point but she does not.....ignorance and anxiety is a unfortunate combination for a weak woman living in fear and abuse. I hope I am wrong.
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    @dafluff You had been extremely helpful. Thank you so much. I felt I have some explanation to do before my next question. I met her in August 2017. I am still legally married, till today. 15 years, two children, 13 and 9. I am not trying to justify my sin but my wife refuses to have sex...
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    Thank you for your insanely relevant reply and info. We are eternally grateful. No money has been mentioned since it started. The monster had demanded around 3,000 sing dollars (I was unaware at this stage) for the divorce but that was just a smoke screen to trick my gf back to indo. I do...
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    That's a fair assumption. No offence taken. It is almost impossible to understand why she did what she did. I would rather believe what you said is true so I do not hurt so much now. Most will think I am a poor deluded chap who refuses to wake up. Have you been with someone whom you met...
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    I am still trying to find more info on this... I believe they had a formal wedding...appreciate your kind reply.
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    Gathering support and contacts in Jakarta

    I understand where you are coming from....I appreciate the advice and you sound like an experienced and wise person. The fact that I am posting here when I am based in sg shows that I am not giving up without a fight. We have been togather for more than four years, seems to me like forty...
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    She only took three days off from work in sg, most time spent on travelling. Its crazy but its true.
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    Gathering support and contacts in Jakarta

    Its very complicated... the short answer is no, I do not. We are afraid the monster maniac will sue her for adultery. She said she still can "tahan" ( I hate this word).
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    Gathering support and contacts in Jakarta

    Not sure how things work, but maybe the police will not interfere much thinking it is a domestic dispute. She is too petrified to try anything. I appreciate your kind words. I do have the impulse to fly there but I have to keep a sound and calm mind to win this uphill battle.
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