My wife wrote this outline and I am posting it. Therefore we both did some work and I would say she did by far the most, hahaha... We hope this helps.
Documents required for KTP Orang Asing (OA) and Kartu Keluarga OA at the Dinas Kependudukan dan Catatan Sipil at the city you live (not at the Provincial Office level like when you get the SKTT after your KITAS). You need to do the process obtaining the KK OA and KTP OA right away after your KITAP/within 14 days after KITAP.
1. Photocopy of KITAP
2. Surat Pengantar for obtaining KTP Orang Asing (OA) and KK OA signed by RT and RW. (This might need to be registered also at Kelurahan).
3. Surat Tanda Melapor (STM) from Polres of the city/town where you live. Before going to Polres you need to get Surat Keterangan from RT/RW first to bring it over there. The STM is done by the Indonesian spouse who needs to report/inform about a foreigner spouse (Orang Asing/Non-Indonesian) living with him or her in the same address. This STM is still required, but the SKLD (Surat Keterangan Lapor Diri) is not since 2013. Ask for a "copy legalisir" of your STM, saying you might need the copy to obtain KTP OA after, as usually KK OA is processed first. Original STM is free and a copy of legalisir is usually Rp10000 or Rp5000 per copy.
4. Sponsored letter by Indonesian spouse with materai Rp6000. Addressed to Kepala Dinas Kependudukan dan Catatan Sipil of the city where you live.
5. Photocopy of passport.
6. Photocopy of KTP and KK of the Indonesian spouse, and bring the originals to show.
7. Photocopy Surat Nikah from KUA for moslem (and from Catpil for non-moslem).
8. Photocopy Akta Surat Keterangan Perkawinan (Marriage Registry) from Catatan Sipil if you are married outside of Indonesia.
9. Surat Keterangan Penduduk Sementara (SKPPS). (Not sure if this one is mandatory).
10. Photocopy of your Diploma. (This is for filling out the Biodata form on a question about the educational background).
11. Photocopy of Children Birth Certificate (biological and/or non-biological who live in the same address).
12. Photocopy PBB payment receipt/Land and Building Tax payment receipt (usually is asked by Kelurahan), not sure if this is mandatory.
13. Two photos 2 x 3 cm. Usually the photo is with a red background if the person is born in odd year and blue background for the even year. These photos are for the non-electric KTP OA. (My wife prepares both red and blue handy, just in case.)
1. Civil Registry Service from Dukcapil Kemendagri site:
http://dukcapil.kemendagri.go.id/detail/pelayanan-administrasi-kependudukan-yang-perlu-anda-ketahui
Undang-Undang Nomor 24 Tahun 2013 tentang Administrasi Kependudukan
- Tujuh, Pengurusan dan Penerbitan Dokumen Kependudukan Tidak Dipungut Biaya (Gratis)
Larangan untuk tidak dipungut biaya semula hanya untuk penerbitan KTP-el, diubah menjadi untuk semua dokumen kependudukan seperti KK, KTP-el, Akta Kelahiran, Akta Perkawinan, Akta Kematian, Akta Perceraian, Akta Pengakuan Anak, dan lain-lain (Berdasarkan Pasal 79A UU No. 24 Tahun 2013).
- Tiga Belas, Penambahan Sanksi
Setiap pejabat dan petugas pada Desa/Kelurahan, Kecamatan, UPTD, Instansi Pelaksana yang memerintahkan dan/atau memfasilitasi pungutan biaya kepada penduduk dalam pengurusan dan penerbitan dokumen kependudukan dipidana dengan pidana penjara paling lama 6 (enam) tahun dan/atau denda paling banyak Rp. 75.000.000 (Berdasarkan Pasal 95B UU No. 24 Tahun 2013).
2. Law No. 24, Year 2013 on Civil Registry Law:
http://buk.um.ac.id/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/Undang-Undang-No-24-Tahun-2013.pdf