The question isn't really directed toward someone like me so I'm not voting in the poll - I'd already moved back to the US and I'm sheltering in place at my home on Hawai'i Island.
Had I been in living in Indonesia when this all started, I'd probably have been forced to go home to Hawai'i. In that alternate world, presumably I would have been in Jakarta with my husband, who was still living there as of March. His employer (a US consulting firm) directed all internationally-based employees to return to their original homes about 3 weeks ago.
Had I been living in Indonesia and free to choose, I'm not sure what I would have done. Most likely I would choose stay in Indonesia, but it would depend on circumstances. For example:
An American friend of mine, a teacher at a now-shuttered international school in Jakarta, is sheltering in place in Solo with her mid-70s Indonesian husband (they have a house and plan to retire there).
Her husband started experiencing a non-COVID 19 stomach illness right around the time this whole thing started. They weren't able to get helpful medical care in Solo or Jakarta and had just decided to go to Singapore when Singapore blocked people from flying in.
Now they are stuck in Solo, getting a lot of heart-breaking requests from local musician friends (who of course have no work right now) for financial help. Her elderly widowed dad is alone in the US and she's worried about him. And she's worried about her husband's ongoing GI problems, which are worsening and there is nothing they can do about.
I don't think she has the option to return to the US with her husband at this point (maybe she could have left earlier; her husband has a 5-year entry permit to the US). It would have been inconvenient, I'm sure, as she is busy teaching her students on line.
But, in her shoes, if I'd had the ability to return to the US at some point, and the predictive ability to see how things would play out, I would have left. (In reality, I probably would have stayed because, like her, I wouldn't have realized until it was too late that I'd be better off, for the sake of husband and father, to be in the US. (Yeah, I know the virus is overwhelming our ill-prepared American health care system - but her home town where her dad is and where they would have gone doesn't have a lot of cases yet, and her husband has previously gotten great medical care in the US thanks to her good medical insurance.)
I worry about my friend and her husband a lot now. Aside from his health issues, she's going to have more requests for financial help than she can handle. She's only a year from retirement herself, so saving are important.