I moved to Jakarta from Los Angeles to seek a better life during the global financial crisis of 2007. I took the leap, and came here in 2010.
Indonesia has been great, and I stayed for all the usual reasons expats settle here, but I feel the time to leave is drawing near. I have a wife and two young children now. The plan is to move to New Zealand. My wife is from there, and I just know it will suit my needs.
I need to live where personal freedoms are not encroached upon. I need to live where there's proper infrastructure, nature, and space. When I say proper infrastructure, it includes something as simple as pedestrian-friendly sidewalks and public transportation. Day-to-day life in Jakarta is becoming more and more claustrophobic. Corona virus has shown that it's something I've tolerated all these years, but now it's downright affecting my family's health. Speaking of which, healthcare and education are also growing concerns.
I want to have friends who aren't in constant competition with me, who are in reality undermining and deceitful. To think, I'm from LA and here I am complaining about social climbers! Maybe it's my fault. I shouldn't be so easily duped by someone, just because they speak English and studied abroad.
I can go on, but I don't want to keep bashing Indonesia and its people. A part of me will always love Indonesia. I was born in Jakarta, after all. Still, my main motivation is to raise our kids in accordance to the values that are important to me. I know Indonesia can't be judged by Jakarta alone. I've lived and worked in a couple of other towns in Central Java (Tegal is fantastic), and have been to Bali many times. Indonesia has been a wonderful experience overall, but my dream is to be able to finally take off my hat, look at my family, and know that we're in a better place.