We have been in Jakarta and it is too busy crowded. Bsd City seems better but still no place to go outside but more city/traffic. Bali is nice for a visit/vacation but too touristy for me and it seems hotter in Bali. We thought Bandung but changed our mind, population a bit too dense. Also, went to Jogja a couple of years ago but decided against it. Went to Malang a couple of times and it may be just what the Dr. ordered. I realise people have different preferences, including family needs/connections. This has probably been gone over different times but any thoughts on why people like their locations?