it's not impossible to manage. you hv to stay alert and sort out the ppl who are allowed not allowed and watch workers etc. it's understandable but it is a mental burden nonetheless. u we always hv to be tight...and in their culture and a lot of other culture if u deny a neighbor for example to come in into yr house..u come across as not social and stiff. sometimes it's a family member like one poster said tools were taken by brother in law...any one can argue that screw em if I don't want sm1 in my house I will make it clear . while it's possible to do that. it may cause small conflicts overtime may lead to problems with wife from pressures etc. I read one poster said if I loose something and take steps to stop ppl get upset and personally. bottom line this slippery slope issue and is real.