Looking for a good Indonesian girl.

[Dave70]

Personally I can not imagine having sex with only the same person for 20 years...

I have had sex with the same woman for almost 30 years, and she's the only woman. But now I lost interest in sex already, I guess she too. Nevertheless, she's always "available" whenever I want it, which is getting fewer and far between. No plan to see doctor, no need for Viagra, we are cool with it, no interest means no erection, so no problem.

 

[snpark]

I have had sex with the same woman for almost 30 years, and she's the only woman. But now I lost interest in sex already, I guess she too. Nevertheless, she's always "available" whenever I want it, which is getting fewer and far between. No plan to see doctor, no need for Viagra, we are cool with it, no interest means no erection, so no problem.

Is she your wife? Or someone else's?

 

[Dave70]

Is she your wife? Or someone else's?

She's the "good girl" mentioned in post #40.

BTW, my ex-gf tracked me down in Indonesia and tried to seduce me when she's already someone else's wife but I shrug her off.

 

[Bob]

You sparked my interest and this is what I found. Let me know what bit you were talking about:

What I was talking about wasn't any of that. Somebody apparently doesn't like the Madurese. I never heard them described as that bad. I have heard it said that they're rough, don't back down, and commercial minded, but nothing about lack of morals and all that.
What I was talking about is strong muscles in a particular area and use of jamu which affects that same particular area.

 

[Pak Tani]

What I was talking about wasn't any of that. Somebody apparently doesn't like the Madurese. I never heard them described as that bad. I have heard it said that they're rough, don't back down, and commercial minded, but nothing about lack of morals and all that.
What I was talking about is strong muscles in a particular area and use of jamu which affects that same particular area.

I live in East Java in an area with many Madurese people and I know many of them. I'm sure many can laugh at the description given above and I find that one of their strengths.
My wife is Javanese so I cannot help confirm or debunk the legend but I do think those jamu's are fun to try out.

 

[Dave70]

I live in East Java in an area with many Madurese people and I know many of them. I'm sure many can laugh at the description given above and I find that one of their strengths.
My wife is Javanese so I cannot help confirm or debunk the legend but I do think those jamu's are fun to try out.

A 70 year old something died after doing it with a 20 year old something in a hotel, what the police looked for in their room is evidence of 'obat kuat' consumption. I guess this happens quite often but not reported, as that's the first thing the police look for. Safe to use or not, depends on the person's age and medical condition.

 

[Bob]

A 70 year old something died after doing it with a 20 year old something in a hotel, what the police looked for in their room is evidence of 'obat kuat' consumption. I guess this happens quite often but not reported, as that's the first thing the police look for. Safe to use or not, depends on the person's age and medical condition.

Good points. The jamu mentioned above is for women.

 

[vocalneal]

My mother kept telling me to clean up my room as no self-respecting girl would go in there. Luckily, they weren't the ones I was after.

 

[Pak Tani]

A 70 year old something died after doing it with a 20 year old something in a hotel, what the police looked for in their room is evidence of 'obat kuat' consumption. I guess this happens quite often but not reported, as that's the first thing the police look for.

Sounds like a story I once heard where a 20 year old something spiked a man's drink to rob him and he died from an overdose of whatever.

I knew an old and toothless 'makelar' who drank special jamu to get some action with his missus again after a long time. Little did he know that it was not the right time of the month and when he was asked why he looked so tired, he replied that his boner had kept him awake the whole night.

Anyway, like Bob mentioned before, the type of jamu we were talking about has names like 'rapet wangi' or 'jamu kembali perawan'.

 

[merahputih]

the type of jamu we were talking about has names like 'rapet wangi' or 'jamu kembali perawan'.

Rapet (tight) wangi (fragant), kembali (back to..) perawan (virgin), or empot (squeze) super for the women en simply named jamu kuat (strong) or tangkur (penis of alligator - redundant, I know..) buaya (alligator, or may be crocodille - I believe back then when people named it they didn't really know the difference).
Kembali, perawan, jamu, kuat, tangkur, and buaya are Indonesian words, rapet is how Javanese say of Indonesian rapat, in this case totally different from rapat = the meeting. Empot, is completely Javanese.

These jamu was frequently a hero or a culprit or additional spark in the news back when people still reading physical newspaper in 1970-1990-ish.

The rapat wangi or empot super supposed to cure yeast infection, Candida albicans, which gives the bearer unpleasent odour, itchiness, and "too much" lubricant. For some cases, the effort to do so along with the jamu lead to overdry the area and cause bruise/unpleasant experience. As for jamu kuat, I think the ingredient contains (a lot of) aphrodisiac substance but not more special than eating oyster, chocolate, etc. There are some jamus (not all) that the maker claims really contains the part of animals. I hate it when people kill animals for this kind of purpose .

 

[merahputih]

Air mata (tears) buaya = fake tears. Buaya darat (land) = a man that has many romantic encounters, unfaithful man.
Seriously, poor buaya...

 

[snpark]

In Thailand a butterfly is a man who floats from girl to girl

 

[Balifrog]

In Thailand a butterfly is a man who floats from girl to girl

Correct... lived there many years. Had a g/f telling me once "you butterfly, me airport"

 

[Samoerai]

As for jamu kuat, I think the ingredient contains (a lot of) aphrodisiac substance but not more special than eating oyster, chocolate, etc.

Men should ask here for 'tongkat ali' ...

 

[vocalneal]

In Thailand a butterfly is a man who floats from girl to girl

In Indonesia Kupu Kupu Malam = night butterfly

 

[snpark]

In Indonesia Kupu Kupu Malam = night butterfly

Moth

 

[merahputih]

In Indonesia Kupu Kupu Malam = night butterfly

It's kupu-kupu malam if it involves money. Because of an old thought, kupu-kupu is associated with women only. If they are men, it's kumbang (bug) or lebah (bee) that menghisap madu (honey sucking) and the women are bunga (flower). And if it's a man, the term kumbang/lebah is not about paid work.
Samples in songs: Titiek Puspa - Kupu-kupu Malam, Iwan Fals - Bunga-bunga Kumbang-kumbang.

 

[pantaiema]

It's kupu-kupu malam if it involves money. Because of an old thought, kupu-kupu is associated with women only. If they are men, it's kumbang (bug) or lebah (bee) that menghisap madu (honey sucking) and the women are bunga (flower). And if it's a man, the term kumbang/lebah is not about paid work.
Samples in songs: Titiek Puspa - Kupu-kupu Malam, Iwan Fals - Bunga-bunga Kumbang-kumbang.

"Bahasa gaul" used in social media "Open BO" ...

 

[Shadrach]

This sounds like a conversation with a bunch of teenage boys that have too much testosterone and are thinking with the little head! It's this kind of thinking that gives women so much power!

 

[Pak Tani]

This sounds like a conversation with a bunch of teenage boys that have too much testosterone and are thinking with the little head!

Have some Tongkat Ali and join the conversation!