I attended my Missus' son wedding in East Java village. Hindu.
I expected to be relax in the background, but her elder brother (my age) came to pick up and made me understand "in the village you are the official husband, so you stay with her"
Front stage...
The whole ceremony, 100 people attending, mix of Hindu and Muslims. Only 1 bule, me...
Theeth grinding, hair samples, carrying the coconut, walking on the fire...etc...
Lasted for hours. OK, I know Asia so I know how to behave.
It was honestly a great experience. Would I assist at another on ? No way.
And the whole thing lasted 3 days.....