I know several couples (the mentioned one was Austrian, not Australian. Austria is a country in Europe, while Australia is a completely separate continent), and the immigration office as well can confirm the 2-year rule. Sometimes they do knot know what are they talking about, but the directorate in Jakarta knows and is as I mentioned before.Ah, you know one Australian couple who had no issues?Then it must be true for everyone…
If your Auntie Mary is taller than your Uncle Joe, it does not mean that the women on average are taller than men.
International marriage must be in accordance with the laws of both countries where the spouses are. To the extreme, if an Indonesian man marries a man in France, that kind of marriage is not valid. If you marry a 10-year-old girl, for example from Saudi Arabia(which allows child marriage), that marriage will not be valid if your country of origin if it does not allow child marriage.
Many countries, for example, France requires foreign marriage registration in France, for to marriage be valid in France.