Hamonajiwa
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- Dec 8, 2019
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Hi everyone, i know about this forum 3 days ago when i find some advise about long overstay. sorry my English is not good enough. I need advice. I am girl from Vietnam(21 years old) and I was overstay in Indonesia for 3 year ( exactly I came here at SEP 2016). After I had fight with my mom, I leave home and come here to meet my boyfriend (we know each other from facebook), at that time I just 18 yeahs old and with me it is the first trip. After meet him, we had a small trip around Jakarta before come back his home. And after I came his home, I never go out again( because he said that I will be jail if the police find out me). At that time, my passport was overstay for 3 months and was damaged the stamp (so I really fear and do anything bf tall me)...i still live with him until now, I miss my family and want to come back Vietnam.
but unlucky, he will break up with me if I choose leave(i had some talk with him, ask him about if I tell my family about my situation, I was 3 years not call back for them and I really miss them. Then he said he will break up with me if I try to tell my family then kick out me from Home! I was so much fear because at there I don't know anyone and don't have money to go out). but after 3 years we live together and saw what he will do if I try to connect my family make me disappointed and choose I need leave that guy.
-I use a secret way and connected with my family and now wait they come here(maybe need 1 month or more). My plan is I will go with mom after she come to take me out, then I will go to the embassy to replace my passport (it was damaged the stamp) then go to the immigration office (KaIm kelas 1 kusus) to report myself. But problem is my boyfriend will not be with me to come KaIm (he don't want have big trouble with new law about WNI will be jail if help WNA overstay) and I don't want give him trouble too. I just hope that the immigration will let me go soon as soon even if my name in blacklist.
-I need some advice . I had read many old post about this case and know in this forum atlantis and marcus are who have knowledge about this. Hope they can reply me.
- I don't have any things can explain how I managed financially ( because my bf is people do it). I am always stay at home. And if I go to KaIm and tell the truth, they maybe will detain me and find him. It will take more long time because my boyfriend said that when my family come here to meet me, he will leave too(or maybe run away?!?)
....i so so confused.
I had made this post in living in Indonesia forum and have some advice. And one of it is take my family stay away from this. I don't know the reason. Because all my hope and who can help me now is my family. I need they support for me but someone advice me don't get my family go with me to KaIm
but unlucky, he will break up with me if I choose leave(i had some talk with him, ask him about if I tell my family about my situation, I was 3 years not call back for them and I really miss them. Then he said he will break up with me if I try to tell my family then kick out me from Home! I was so much fear because at there I don't know anyone and don't have money to go out). but after 3 years we live together and saw what he will do if I try to connect my family make me disappointed and choose I need leave that guy.
-I use a secret way and connected with my family and now wait they come here(maybe need 1 month or more). My plan is I will go with mom after she come to take me out, then I will go to the embassy to replace my passport (it was damaged the stamp) then go to the immigration office (KaIm kelas 1 kusus) to report myself. But problem is my boyfriend will not be with me to come KaIm (he don't want have big trouble with new law about WNI will be jail if help WNA overstay) and I don't want give him trouble too. I just hope that the immigration will let me go soon as soon even if my name in blacklist.
-I need some advice . I had read many old post about this case and know in this forum atlantis and marcus are who have knowledge about this. Hope they can reply me.
- I don't have any things can explain how I managed financially ( because my bf is people do it). I am always stay at home. And if I go to KaIm and tell the truth, they maybe will detain me and find him. It will take more long time because my boyfriend said that when my family come here to meet me, he will leave too(or maybe run away?!?)
....i so so confused.
I had made this post in living in Indonesia forum and have some advice. And one of it is take my family stay away from this. I don't know the reason. Because all my hope and who can help me now is my family. I need they support for me but someone advice me don't get my family go with me to KaIm