Who ordered you to leave? Snpark, Immigration, South Africa Super Rugby, the food vendor on the street, your wife??????
You story isn't very clear and I am wondering if you are leaving things out. I get you might be stressed out, but seriously, in order for us to give you advice or suggestions, we need the full picture and not 1% of it.
So correct me if I am wrong.
1. Your passport expires in October so a month from now.
2. Your KITAP(wife sponsored) is valid until 2022
3. It takes a year for your passport to be processed under normal circumstances. Probably longer.
4. The South African Embassy says they aren't processing passports due to restrictions.
So I have a few questions for you.
1. Were you working and in what area(IT, aviation, oil, education, etc...)?
2. Did you ask why your embassy what the restrictions were which prevents them from processing the visa?
3. Did you ask for an official letter from your embassy explain the situation in case immigration asks for your passport?
4. Why didn't you go to your embassy straight away when you realized your passport was expiring soon? You spent about a month and half posting here before going to your embassy.
For those wondering, it started here:
https://www.expatindo.org/community...ring-embassy-not-processing-them-either.5602/