That’s exactly my original question. How much approximately do you send for the child ONLY???? I don’t get any communication, receipts or anything from the ex. So its a guessing game for the last 6 years. I put some money in my ex’s bank account what I think & then it’s solely up to the mother to be responsible & spend it accordingly. Ive never known what its spent on. Before our child was born I built her a very big 3 bedroom house with everything for a comfortable life style for the future. No house payments or rent is paid. An average amount in Australia dollars is all i’m Asking for. Thank you for everyone’s personal opinion. Some is helpful & some is not.No, I didn't say "dont send".
Amount : You send to cover the cost of the kid, clothing, school fee, food, books and pens. Not to feed the whole family. As such, sending an amount that is the local wage for and adult is over the top IMO.
Controls : How do you control how the money is spend, and the progress of the kid ? 100% trust ?