I and was the 1978 Hong Kong female dart champian.
Sure some of you might have already seen this. An hilarious take on some of the comments expat men with Indonesian women might hear. http://jakarta.coconuts.co/2016/07/20/viral-bule-describes-his-love-ayam-hilarious-video
TC do you remember that list we girls made a couple of years back? It was hilarious as I recall.
The one stating all the incidents, obstacles and issues facing a mixed marriage?
My daughter is very bule looking. Once, while renting a place in Ubud, from an Indonesian guy, who had a bule wife and kids, he asked my wife where her mother was. That did not go over well. At all.Actually a good friend of mine who is the daughter of an Indonesian man and western woman, told me that when she was little, while only traveling with her dad, they were stopped by cops who thought that she was kidnapped!
The other way around, which still happens today, is that the Indonesian mom is thought to be the "pembantu".